fashion,emotions versus health which is most important

 fashion, emotions versus health which is most important

        Written By: Waqas Rafiq

Today I’m going to talk about the topic of “fashion vs health.” I’m writing this to say that if we go by what other people think, then one of them is more important than another one. But let me explain myself. Today I’m not saying this because it’s a popular opinion. It’s an honest, true thing and it will make sense if you look at it from another point of view. So we all love to compare fashion and health. We all are aware that when we fall in love with something, what is its significance? Does it have any meaning? These questions come to our minds everywhere. Because if we get them, we know we might not have a problem. Because after falling for someone, what are we willing to do to stay with him? What can we do to love that person even after he/she has fallen for us? There are many things that we can do to protect ourselves from emotional abuse but we aren’t in such detail yet. And when you look at the statistics of social media, you can see that the majority of women (40–50% ) are targeted for emotional abuse, not only that, they have to deal with their own minds. They have to cope with their emotions against people who they fall in love with. Because they couldn’t live without them. And because they like to watch everyone else being happy and wearing beautiful clothes and they are unhappy. And their jealousness is getting worse as time passes, not only that the feelings are increasing and so it gets harder to control their behaviors. This makes us feel bad in life. We were very much attracted to those people. That’s why they were always so close to us. The same feeling that was in our hearts. So we started looking around for something better. We were trying to find it in different styles. Some of us tried to avoid them. Others wanted to be different. For example, they tried to learn how to dress like Kate Middleton by changing into her blue coat and jeans (which obviously didn’t fit) to wear the clothes of the Queen. Because a woman should be proud of herself. A man should be respected and should be treated well in public. All these actions are good but sometimes you need someone who is very much like you. Someone who is always excited about you and about his/her things. Someone who doesn’t want anything except your happiness. Someone who is full of confidence and self-esteem. These people give us a lot of messages. These messages are enough for everyone. People tell us to be loving. Many people who care about us fall in love with others just like us. And it hurts. Not to forget this feeling. You feel unimportant. Everything seems wrong. Then you realize someone who hurt and insulted you before is now asking for forgiveness and taking responsibility. Now you feel like no matter where you went, he had the power to change your life. Everyone is telling you to grow up and stop crying, stop worrying about what people are thinking and start moving on. After that, you realize that there is nobody to show you how to love. You understand everything about yourself and you realize you need to just accept it and accept the situation. And you don’t think about it much anymore. Of course, it’s hard. In some cases. Because sometimes you can’t even concentrate. You want to cry. You’re upset and you hate yourself. Sometimes you need someone to take care of you. Your friends are also giving you this message and you don’t want to hear that too and so you can’t concentrate your attention on anybody because you know that everything is going to end. But that doesn’t mean that you’re hopeless. You can start working it out from somewhere. Maybe you’ll try to find a job that gives you a sense of belonging. If you want to get married or get divorced or whatever, then you’re still going to have to take care of the kids a little bit. You need someone. Just someone who could love and care for you. At least somebody who has your back no matter what. To love someone is a very emotional thing. Even though we might not have the right to know if the person that has our backs is the right kind of love. But if I didn’t love someone enough, would I really want to spend my whole life with someone who will give me all the affection and care that I need in every moment? No way. So we mustn’t be so quick to judge. We have to understand that our heart truly loves others. As long as we are able to accept them for who they truly are, we will be able to live peacefully with them. Once you’ve accepted yourself, everything else becomes easier and easier.